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Reports of violence against women in Gaza surge, UN agency finds

The UN Population Fund also says there has been a "severe escalation" in the number of early and forced marriages.

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8-350 | When Men Confuse Combativeness with Strength

What does it actually mean to be strong?In this episode of Inspire Change with Gunter, Gunter Swoboda explores the difference between combativeness and genuine strength, examining how men can learn to equate winning, dominance and confrontation with being strong.  The episode looks at five values that patriarchal systems can hand men: territory, hierarchy, acquisition, competition and combativeness. While competition and assertiveness can have constructive roles, they can become damaging when they are disconnected from cooperation, respect and emotional awareness.Gunter examines what happens when the drive to compete becomes a drive to win at all costs—and how that mindset can show up not only in obvious conflict, but in everyday conversations, relationships and disagreements.At the center of the discussion is an important distinction:Being assertive is not the same as being aggressive.Assertiveness allows a person to communicate their needs, boundaries and perspective while still respecting the other person. Aggression, by contrast, can turn communication into a contest in which the objective becomes defeating or overpowering someone else.The episode also explores reactive versus responsive communication.When we react, we often allow emotion, ego or the desire to win to determine what happens next. Responsive communication creates something different: space and choice. That brief pause can allow us to decide how we actually want to communicate rather than simply responding to the emotional intensity of the moment.Gunter also discusses the damaging role of contempt in relationships. When disagreement becomes personal, dismissive or degrading, the conflict is no longer simply about the issue being discussed. The relationship itself begins to suffer.The alternative isn't weakness.It is a different understanding of strength.True strength doesn't require winning every argument.It can mean being able to hold your position while remaining open to another person's perspective. It can mean setting a boundary without attacking someone. It can mean disagreeing without turning the other person into an enemy.Gunter offers practical ways to begin developing this kind of assertiveness and emotional intelligence, including learning to recognize reactive patterns and deliberately creating space before responding. The goal isn't to eliminate competition or disagreement.It's to develop a healthier relationship with them.Because when combativeness becomes disconnected from cooperation, competition can become toxic. But when competition is paired with respect, collaboration and self-awareness, it can become a vehicle for growth rather than domination.And ultimately, practicing assertiveness is not something we master overnight. As Gunter puts it: “Practicing assertiveness is like building a muscle.”The more intentionally we practice it, the more natural it becomes. Key Topics - The five values patriarchy hands men: territory, hierarchy, acquisition, competition and combativeness - The difference between being combative and being strong - How combativeness manifests in everyday life and relationships - The relationship between combativeness, insecurity and ego needs - The impact of contempt on relationships - Reactive versus responsive communication - The difference between assertiveness and aggression - Creating space and choice before responding - Respectful communication during disagreement - Practical approaches to developing assertiveness - Building emotional intelligence through practice - Using communication to strengthen relationships and personal growth Takeaways - Combativeness can mask insecurity and ego needs. - True strength is assertiveness, not aggression or winning. - Contempt can be deeply damaging to relationships. - Responsive communication creates space and choice rather than immediate reaction. - Disagreement does not have to become combat. - Assertiveness allows people to communicate clearly while maintaining respect. - Practicing new communication patterns can strengthen emotional intelligence and relationships. - Competition can be healthier when it remains connected to cooperation. Chapter Highlights - Introduction: Combativeness vs. Strength - How Combativeness Damages Relationships - The Distinction Between Assertiveness and Aggression - Reactive vs. Responsive Communication - Handling Disagreements with Respect and Understanding - Conclusion: Redefining Strength Through Respect Gratitude We want to extend a huge thank you to our listeners in Denver and Boulder who brought Colorado to #6 on the Top 10 USA listeners list. And to our Global Listeners, we extend our gratitude to our listeners in Mumbai for bringing India back up to #10! CONGRATULATIONS!! you made the Top Listeners List.

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Living With Men: Reflections on the Pelicot Trial

Living With Men: Reflections on the Pelicot Trial, Manon Garcia is a rising star in feminist and public philosophy with a strong international following. Her previous books have been translated into n...

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Film 2203 e 2236 - Barbie

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