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Reading about the manosphere for work. It's enraging but ultimately frustrating. The frustration: so little emphasis is placed on just befriending people -yes, including women! - and on being part of a community instead of trying to conquer it. It's fine just being nice. You don't need to be a King.
Right arm in pain now from holding it up for an hour during Gianni Infantinoโs press conference World Cup press conference and being studiously ignored by FIFAโs comms head Bryan Swanson. What was there to worry about after all FIFA is now a transparent and trusted organisation. ๐ณ
It's not a "male loneliness epidemic". It's *a male friendship crisis*. Men are encouraging unhealthy behaviour in each other and at best waiting for women to heal them. Fundamentally, these men - either those in the manosphere or those influenced by it - are just not being kind to each other.
"Being A Man" gets built up into being this huge unattainable goal but actually life gets a lot easier if you just go online and try being friendly. Of course Men are going to think being a Man is a Warrior Quest if they talk about it like that all the time. But it doesn't have to be that deep!
This thing of "I cannot find a romantic partner therefore all is doomed" - the problem is that so many men are socialised against making friends that they put far too much pressure on finding a partner as the solution to all their ills, as if a partner can or should "fix" everything.
New for @josimarfootball.bsky.social: Fifa's favourite megastar Shakira will perform her new WC "anthem" "Dai Dai" at the opening ceremony tomorrow. All proceeds to go to charity? No, despite the pledges: she and her co-writers, including Ed Sheeran, stand to make a small fortune from the song.
From the new edition of @privateeyenews.bsky.social: the CEO of the Great Britain Gambling Commission, Andrew Rhodes, has left his job to...become a consultant to the gambling industry he was paid to regulate five minutes ago? How wonderful for him. #jobsfortheboys
World Cup. The first one I went to was Italia 90. It blew my mind being part of that global party - accessible to all including a teenager with ยฃ200 and a sleeping bag (plenty for two matches and a million laughs). Over time that ideal has been corrupted. www.theguardian.com/football/blo...
It's an orgy of male-on-male cruelty. Like the schoolyard bullying that men think we can't escape. But the thing is - men can. Despite the algorithms and the cost of living, men have much more agency that we admit or accept. Feeding that sense of a total lack of agency feels irresponsible.
Infantino responds to a Q from Dan Roan about Artan by pointing to how he's from BBC and nobody would want Fifa to overrule UK laws if they hold 2035 Women's World Cup A completely evasive and prepared line (that misses the point), given it was what Fifa were saying yesterday
The underlying message of the manosphere seems to be "if the world is unpleasant to you then ultimately you have the right to explode". (As opposed to "the world has been unpleasant to me, how can I contribute to making the world a more pleasant place") . It's a grimly effective sell.
In the manosphere, telling men they are doomed is good for business. What is not good for business is saying "see those spite-filled anonymous chatrooms that you join, why not instead join one where you earnestly compliment people on wholesome stuff they made that you liked"
Someone asked "what model of masculinity is out there to rival what Tate is selling" and I think, we don't need some Master of the Universe paradigm. All we need is: "small and constant acts of kindness to the community around you". (My mentor at uni, now retired, is the perfect example of that.)
๐จ Manchester City verbal proposal to Nottingham Forest for Elliot Anderson was worth ยฃ106m + add-ons taking it above ยฃ120m. #NFFC want British record fee guaranteed, not after bonuses. No fresh talks with #MCFC over 23yo England midfielder ๐จ @theathleticfc.bsky.social www.nytimes.com/athletic/733...
Each of these men should try one thing: from the moment you wake up in the morning, to the moment you go to bed at night, spend an entire day being nice to yourself. No mean self-talk, no disparaging others to make yourself feel better, no "tough love". Just gentleness. It would blow their minds.
๐จ BREAKING: Kieran McKenna to step down as Ipswich Town head coach. 40yo Northern Irishman decision to take time away from management + #ITFC protected financially if/when makes return. Contingency planning already started; now accelerates ๐จ @theathleticfc.bsky.social www.nytimes.com/athletic/734...
๐ต Sources: Sporting KC pushing to sign winger FC Toulouse winger Yann Gboho. Gboho valued at $20m by Toulouse. Nothing advanced at all yet, ambitious pursuit with European interest. One of several DP targets for SKC. With @paultenorio.bsky.social www.nytimes.com/athletic/734...
When my mentor at uni retired, people travelled from far and wide to his retirement dinner, because he poured constant love and care into the lives of his students for forty years. I have rarely seen so much love in one room. It's not that he meant it to be reciprocated, but he got it all back.
They all seem like such nice fellas e.g. "19 convictions for 33 offences including battery, robbery, burglary and shoplifting. On one occasion, he broke a partner's front teeth, punched her unconscious and when she woke up told her he had put bleach in her hair." www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cn...
๐จ Manchester United admiration for Elliot Anderson well known but not in contention at current financial level. #MUFC refusing to enter bidding war; targeting players who want them + focused on candidates like Mateus Fernandes & Alex Scott ๐จ @theathleticfc.bsky.social www.nytimes.com/athletic/733...
๐จ EXCL: Fulham have held talks with Alvaro Arbeloa about head coach vacancy following Marco Silva exit. 43yo Spaniard available after leaving Real Madrid & has met #FFC to discuss possibility of taking Craven Cottage role ๐จ @theathleticfc.bsky.social www.nytimes.com/athletic/708...
And video piece of my big World Cup preview If there's an underlying theme to this World Cup it's the ongoing sense of the game being taken away from those who most care... ... but the football itself and what it means perseveres www.youtube.com/watch?v=DEG7...
Not surprised at those numbers because Forest are in a strong position and know that City could (will eventually) pay up - they canโt afford to miss out after Rice. Anderson is top quality, ticks all the boxes and could be the heart of their midfield for a decade. Itโll get done.
Everton are appealing after being ordered to pay Burnley $47M for breaching PL financial rules in the 2021/21 season. Burnley, who were relegated, argued Everton's breach reduced their survival hopes so sought compensation. Everton are "surprised and angered" at the decision โ๏ธ
"Enigma Variations" Half Six Fix with the @londonsymphony.bsky.social at the Barbican last night. There is no more enthused and enthusing compere for these wonderful one-hour concerts than Antonio Pappano. Now - first question: why aren't these broadcast live? That format is ideal for TV.
๐จNEW for Patrons๐จ Scouting Morgan Rogers (with a bit on the Medical shakeup at Arsenal) @clivepafc.bsky.social ๐ดChecking the data ๐ดWatching Rogers in all phases of play and positions ๐ดHis goals catalogue ๐ดVERDICT! www.patreon.com/posts/video-...
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NEW @theathleticfc.bsky.social President Trump not currently planning to attend USMNT opening FIFA World Cup match against Paraguay on Friday night at SoFi Stadium, per four people familiar with match planning or his plans. He has walkthroughs of White House UFC event on Friday.
The 2026 World Cup: so much to dislike/deplore, so much to look forward to โ as was the case in Qatar and Russia. If you feel conflicted, you're not the only one. But unless fatigue and the horribly bloated format kill it, the football will still be a joy to behold www.nytimes.com/athletic/734...
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It's always one of the greatest pleasures of the year when this is published but being asked to contributing is bittersweet: it's a real honour (and likely means Arsenal are represented) but means I have less to read as a fan. Take a look and keep an eye open for the World Cup XI in a few weeks!
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I feel like taking some of these men in the forums to one side and quietly asking them "hey, do you actually feel safe here? This feels kind of hostile in here, doesn't it? Like these men seething about women might suddenly turn all that hate towards you. Doesn't that worry you?"